Tuesday, November 28, 2006

Of Puzzles and Closures

Modern Pieta

From Padua to Dancel

by Efren D. Dancel

I've been wanting to give you, ACM and VAI brothers, a background of the change of my surname from Padua to Dancel. I've been known as Efren "Bogs" Padua eversince SVS-VHS days wayback 1985.. But now, people know me as Efren Dancel. What's with this twist? What's in a name?

Is it true that only women who get married change their surnames? Generally, yes, but there are isolated cases like mine. After I secured my birth certificate from the NSO as one of the graduation requirements, I eventually found out that my surname is DANCEL with the same birth-month/date/year, with the same father and mother's name.

What was my reaction? I was happy because my deceased father acknowledged me even if I am an illegitimate child.

Later I had known, when my mother was still alive, that Mr. Padua, my step dad, changed my birth certificate to easily comply with the school requirements. Do I have to file a case in court? No more, because NSO did not initiate any change in their file. Adamson required my mother to submit an affidavit that Efren Padua and Efren Dancel is one and the same person. I hope this will clarify things for the moment and put proper closures in my life's puzzles..

Call me Bogs Padua.. Call me Bogs Dancel.. either way, I will always be your brother carrying the same Vincentian blood...

Tuesday, November 14, 2006

Claude's Journey Begins...

Isn't it coincidental that from October 15 to November 14 no entries were posted to this blog giving a space for Claude Wayne's cause.. hoping for a miracle or two..

The news of Claude's passing away made me sit and stare blankly on the computer screen....

Sometimes miracles don't happen the way we want it to happen or the way we see it coming.. Have all our efforts been put to naught? What's next?....

Claude passed away in the loving embrace of the Creator who alone can give a fuller life.

Miracles happen not the way we want it at times. Some miracles hurt and can hurt deeply.. After Claude's death we are left with something to ponder upon...

Claude, help us... Do pray for us..... for a A Miracle or Two...